Let me guess.

You’re feeling disconnected from your body, your partner, your sensuality. There’s a block there, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to think your way around it.

But you don’t have to tackle this alone.

I help individuals and people in relationships to recognise and communicate their desires, to overcome shame and challenge negative beliefs, and to have the sex they really want.

A woman with short brown hair and a green sweater sitting on a leather couch in a room with a wooden wall, plants, a lamp, and a patterned rug.

Hey, I’m Nic

(she/her)

Somatic Sexologist & Relationship Coach
from Coffs Harbour on the NSW Mid North Coast

I’m passionate about supporting others to gain confidence in themselves and their sexuality whilst developing deeper connections with their body.

My approach is warm, inclusive and non-clinical.

I work with people of all ages, backgrounds and sexualities, and I will not pathologise or diagnose you. Instead, we’ll figure out what your goals are when it comes to sex, intimacy and relationships, and work together to get you there.

I’m kink, BDSM, polyam and sex-worker friendly, and work with individuals and people in diverse relationship dynamics.

More About Nic

A modern take on sex and couples therapy

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Neuroaffirming support for all humans

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A modern take on sex and couples therapy 〰️ Neuroaffirming support for all humans 〰️

Areas I can support you with

Sex

Sex education, anatomy and skills
Pain or numbness during sex
Ejaculation or erectile difficulty
Difficulty with orgasm
Performance anxiety

Intimacy

Body confidence
Understanding consent
Unlearning fear and shame
Feeling disconnected from your body
Awakening pleasure

Relationships

Mismatched libido/desire
Couples counselling
Relationship conflict
Navigating non-monogamy
Improving communication

FAQ

You’ve probably got a few questions

Somatic sexology is a holistic educational approach to sexual health and pleasure, integrating somatic and embodied practices to explore emotions and sensations within the body.
Together we’ll use these tools (such as shifting awareness, mindfulness and visualisation) to reflect on what you’re currently experiencing sexually, and where you want to get to.
TLDR: instead of just talking about what’s in your head, we listen to what your body is saying too.
Historically, sex therapy has focussed on the diagnosis of a dysfunction or disorder, with the goal of returning an individual to a ‘normal’ level of functioning. In recent years, sexual health and wellness has expanded beyond simply managing dysfunctions, risk or reproduction, and towards a movement of sex positivity and sexual pleasure!
We will only talk about topics that you’re comfortable and ready to discuss. If you’re seeing me for other challenges with relationships and intimacy, sex may come into the conversation, but we’ll take it at your pace.
I support couples and people in diverse relationship structures to navigate challenges and improve communication. This may be early on in the relationship as you’re noticing some initial hurdles, or it may be decades into the relationship when you’re really struggling.
Each session is different and tailored to your unique experience and goals.
There is no nudity and I do not touch clients or allow clients to touch me. Sessions may include somatic practices such as breathing exercises, body scans, non-sexual self touch and visualisation. You’ll often be sent home with homework or resources to explore before our next session together.
Absolutely! I offer online sexology sessions so you can log on from anywhere in the world. Just make sure you have somewhere quiet and private without distractions for an hour.